What's Wrong With "The Secret"

I just watched "The Secret" again over the weekend. Ifirst time. I was getting straight A's and awards in high
love this film, but this whole business over calling it "Theschool. And I had just come home from my first trip to
Secret" makes me laugh. It's not like "Think and GrowEurope. It was a very high vibration time. Until I was hit
Rich" or "The Power of Positive Thinking", or "The Lawby a car, went into a coma, and came out with a
of Attraction" have been kept hidden by some cabalserious brain injury that destroyed my life for a few
of powerful business men. None of this is new, andyears. I had to let go of everything I knew about
none of it's a secret. In fact these are the titles ofspirituality at that time just to survive. In this instance, at
immensely popular and influential books over the lastleast, like did not attract like.
century.While I may quibble with the Law of Attraction, I
So what is the secret?choose to believe in a Law of the Highest Good:
Esther Hicks found hers and teaches message ofeverything happens for the highest good. Everything.
Abraham. Wayne Dyer found his and he teaches theYou just have to survive it first.
Power of Intention. Byron Katie found hers andSo what really is the secret?
teaches The Work. I found mine, and I teach MagicThat area of your deepest pain is also the key to your
and Manifestation.heart's desire. Only the person who has been through
But even these aren't the real secret.your pain, walks on your path, and learns what you
Cause you can do everything "right"--the mantras, thelearn will discover your secret.
meditations, the visioning, the positive thinking--and notThere's a connection between mind and matter.
see a change in your circumstances. I've been that girl.There's a connection between you and the universe
Give yourself a break. You're not doing it wrong.itself. "As above so below." But how you access
You're not less worthy. You're just where you are.those connections is your unique experience.
Right now. We all take a turn in that dark night of theNOTHING works for everyone all the time. What you
soul.discover will probably look A LOT like what other
"Be a light unto yourself," the Buddha taught. Take allpeople have been saying for the last 10,000 years.
these teachings in, and take them all with a grain ofAnd the stuff that looks different may be even more
salt. There's an old Irish adage that says you have toimportant. It's your contribution. In fact this may be what
do your own growing, no matter how tall youryou're here to teach so others can discover their own
grandfather is. Nobody else's law is your law, not evensecret.
the Law of Attraction.We all have to reinvent the wheel at some level for
I believe in a strong tendency of attraction. Don't getourselves. I cannot presume to have your answers,
me wrong--I'm all about attraction. I think aboutonly suggestions. The finger the teacher points at the
something and a few days later it shows up. But amoon is not the moon itself.
"law" of attraction? Like always attracts like? NotSo go watch the movie. It's great. And if you like "The
really:Secret," pick up "Millionaire: Awaken Your Secret." It's
Twenty four years ago, I was in rapturous love for thedifferent, similar, and you'll like it too.